HSC Unit Seven: Lesson 1 ; Etiquette and Manners
As a child, you must have been told to greet your elders and visitors to your home according to your culture and tradition. You must also have been taught to be polite in company and keep quiet while others, especially your elders, spoke.
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Possibly, you at times grudged such schooling. Possibly, at times you even protested such disciplining. Now, certainly you know that you canât always behave the way you want especially in the presence of others.
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There are rules of behavior you have to follow in a company. We are social beings and have to consider the effect of our behavior on others, even if we are at home and dealing with our family members.
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We have two terms to describe our social behavior- âetiquetteâ and âmanners.â âEtiquetteâ is a French word and it means the rules correct behavior in society. The word âmannersâ means the behavior that is considered to be polite in a particular society or culture.
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Manners can be good or bad. For example, it is a bad manner to speak with food in oneâs mouth. No one likes a bad- mannered person. Remember that etiquette and manners vary from future to culture and from society to society.
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We learn etiquette and manners from our parents, families and various institutions, such as schools, colleges or professional bodies. There are rules of behavior for all kinds of social occasions and it is important to learn them and practice them in everyday life.
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The manners that are correct in a wedding reception will not do in a debating club. Therefore, we have to be careful about etiquette and manners. We know how important it is to say âpleaseâ and âthank youâ in everyday life.
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We know how important it is to say âpleaseâ and âthank youâ in everyday life. A few more polite expressions such as âpardon meâ, âmay Iâ, are bound to make your day smooth and pleasant.
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Here are some basic rules of etiquette:
Respect othersâ personal space.
Donât interrupt when someone else is talking.
Be a helper.
Be on time.
Donât yell in public places.
Eat politely.
Chew with your mouth closed.
Stand in queue.
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There are many more. How many more can you add to the above list? Here are some thoughtful observations on manners and etiquette from some famous people
Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners.â Laurence Sterne
Life is short, but there is always time enough for courtesy.â Ralph Waldo Emerson
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The real test of good manners is to be able to put up with bad manners.â Kahlil Gibran
âHandsome is what handsome does.â J R Tolkein
âPoliteness is a sign of dignity, not subservience.â Theodore Roosevelt
âāĻāĻžāĻ˛ā§ āĻāĻāĻ°āĻŖā§āĻ° āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻā§āĻ¤ āĻĒāĻ°ā§āĻā§āĻˇāĻž āĻšāĻ˛ā§ āĻāĻžāĻ°āĻžāĻĒ āĻāĻāĻ°āĻŖā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻŽāĻžāĻ¨āĻŋā§ā§ āĻ¨ā§āĻā§āĻžāĻ° āĻā§āĻˇāĻŽāĻ¤āĻžāĨ¤â āĻāĻšāĻ˛āĻŋāĻ˛ āĻāĻŋāĻŦāĻ°āĻžāĻ¨
âāĻ¸ā§āĻ āĻ¸ā§āĻ¨ā§āĻĻāĻ°, āĻ¯āĻžāĻ° āĻāĻžāĻ āĻ¸ā§āĻ¨ā§āĻĻāĻ°āĨ¤â āĻā§ āĻāĻ° āĻāĻ° āĻāĻ˛āĻāĻŋāĻ¨
âāĻāĻĻā§āĻ°āĻ¤āĻž āĻŽāĻ°ā§āĻ¯āĻžāĻĻāĻžāĻ° āĻ¸ā§āĻŽāĻžāĻ°āĻ, āĻĻāĻžāĻ¸āĻ¤ā§āĻŦā§āĻ° āĻ¨ā§āĨ¤â āĻĨāĻŋāĻāĻĄā§āĻ° āĻ°ā§āĻāĻā§āĻ˛ā§āĻ
âA manâs manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait.â Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
âWhoever interrupts the conversation of others to make a display of his fund of knowledge makes notorious his stock of ignorance.â Shaikh Saâdi
Etiquette is a fine-tuning of education.â Nadine Daher
âāĻŦā§āĻ¯āĻā§āĻ¤āĻŋāĻ° āĻāĻāĻ°āĻŖ āĻšāĻā§āĻā§ āĻāĻāĻāĻŋ āĻā§āĻ¨āĻž āĻ¯ā§āĻāĻžāĻ¨ā§ āĻ¸ā§ āĻ¤āĻžāĻ° āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻ¤āĻŋāĻā§āĻāĻŦāĻŋ āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻĻāĻ°ā§āĻļāĻ¨ āĻāĻ°ā§āĨ¤â āĻā§ā§āĻšāĻžāĻ¨ āĻā§āĻ˛āĻĢāĻāĻžāĻ āĻĢāĻ¨ āĻā§āĻ¯ā§āĻā§
âāĻ¯ā§ āĻ¤āĻžāĻ° āĻā§āĻāĻžāĻ¨ā§āĻ° āĻāĻžāĻ¨ā§āĻĄāĻžāĻ° āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻĻāĻ°ā§āĻļāĻ¨ā§āĻ° āĻāĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻ
āĻ¨ā§āĻ¯āĻĻā§āĻ° āĻāĻĨāĻžā§ āĻŦāĻžāĻ§āĻž āĻĻā§ā§ āĻ¸ā§ āĻŦāĻ°ā§ āĻ¤āĻžāĻ° āĻ
āĻā§āĻāĻ¤āĻžāĻ° āĻāĻžāĻ¨ā§āĻĄāĻžāĻ°āĻā§āĻ āĻā§āĻā§āĻ¯āĻžāĻ¤ āĻāĻ°ā§āĨ¤â āĻļā§āĻ āĻ¸āĻžāĻĻā§
âāĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ° āĻšāĻ˛ā§ āĻļāĻŋāĻā§āĻˇāĻžāĻ° āĻĒāĻ°āĻŋāĻļā§āĻ˛āĻŋāĻ¤ āĻāĻāĻ¤āĻžāĻ¨āĨ¤â
Different situations call for different etiquette and manners. These are divided into three groups: family etiquette, social etiquette and professional etiquette. A few more tips on etiquette are given below:
āĻŦāĻŋāĻāĻŋāĻ¨ā§āĻ¨ āĻĒāĻ°āĻŋāĻ¸ā§āĻĨāĻŋāĻ¤āĻŋāĻ¤ā§ āĻŦāĻŋāĻāĻŋāĻ¨ā§āĻ¨ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ° āĻāĻŦāĻ āĻāĻāĻ°āĻŖā§āĻ° āĻāĻšā§āĻŦāĻžāĻ¨ āĻāĻžāĻ¨āĻžāĻ¨ā§ āĻšāĻ¯āĻŧāĨ¤ āĻāĻā§āĻ˛āĻŋ āĻ¤āĻŋāĻ¨āĻāĻŋ āĻā§āĻ°ā§āĻĒā§ āĻŦāĻŋāĻāĻā§āĻ¤: āĻĒāĻžāĻ°āĻŋāĻŦāĻžāĻ°āĻŋāĻ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°, āĻ¸āĻžāĻŽāĻžāĻāĻŋāĻ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ° āĻāĻŦāĻ āĻĒā§āĻļāĻžāĻĻāĻžāĻ° āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°āĨ¤ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ° āĻ¸āĻŽā§āĻĒāĻ°ā§āĻā§ āĻāĻ°āĻ āĻāĻ¯āĻŧā§āĻāĻāĻŋ āĻāĻŋāĻĒāĻ¸ āĻ¨ā§āĻā§ āĻĻā§āĻāĻ¯āĻŧāĻž āĻšāĻ˛:
Family Etiquette
Respect each otherâs belongings.
Do not shout at children. Treat them kindly.
Listen to your parents.
āĻĒāĻžāĻ°āĻŋāĻŦāĻžāĻ°āĻŋāĻ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°
āĻāĻā§ āĻ āĻĒāĻ°ā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻŽā§āĻĒāĻĻ āĻ¸āĻŽā§āĻŽāĻžāĻ¨ āĻāĻ°ā§āĻ¨āĨ¤ āĻŦāĻžāĻā§āĻāĻžāĻĻā§āĻ° āĻāĻŋā§āĻāĻžāĻ° āĻāĻ°āĻŦā§āĻ¨ āĻ¨āĻžāĨ¤ āĻ¤āĻžāĻĻā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻ¸āĻĻāĻ¯āĻŧ āĻāĻāĻ°āĻŖ āĻāĻ°ā§āĻ¨ āĻāĻĒāĻ¨āĻžāĻ° āĻŦāĻžāĻŦāĻž āĻļā§āĻ¨āĻ¤ā§.
Basic Social Etiquette:
Always be on time. Showing up late is rude and shows a lack of respect for other peopleâs time.
Never interrupt the other persons while he/ she is talking.
āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻžāĻĨāĻŽāĻŋāĻ āĻ¸āĻžāĻŽāĻžāĻāĻŋāĻ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°:
āĻ¸āĻ°ā§āĻŦāĻĻāĻž āĻ¸āĻŽāĻ¯āĻŧāĻŽāĻ¤ā§ āĻĨāĻžāĻā§āĻ¨āĨ¤ āĻĻā§āĻ°ā§āĻ¤ā§ āĻĻā§āĻāĻž āĻ āĻ¸āĻā§āĻ¯ āĻāĻŦāĻ āĻ āĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻŽāĻžāĻ¨ā§āĻˇā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻŽāĻ¯āĻŧā§āĻ° āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻ¤āĻŋ āĻļā§āĻ°āĻĻā§āĻ§āĻžāĻ° āĻ āĻāĻžāĻŦ āĻĻā§āĻāĻžāĻ¯āĻŧāĨ¤ āĻ¤āĻŋāĻ¨āĻŋ āĻ¯āĻāĻ¨ āĻāĻĨāĻž āĻŦāĻ˛āĻā§āĻ¨ āĻ¤āĻāĻ¨ āĻ āĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻŦā§āĻ¯āĻā§āĻ¤āĻŋāĻā§ āĻāĻāĻ¨āĻ āĻŦāĻžāĻ§āĻž āĻĻā§āĻŦā§āĻ¨ āĻ¨āĻžāĨ¤
Basic Social Etiquette:
Give and receive compliments graciously.
Refuse to gossip with and about friends.
Hold doors for people entering immediately after you.
āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻžāĻĨāĻŽāĻŋāĻ āĻ¸āĻžāĻŽāĻžāĻāĻŋāĻ āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°:
āĻ āĻ¨ā§āĻā§āĻ°āĻš āĻāĻ°ā§ āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻļāĻāĻ¸āĻž āĻĻāĻŋāĻ¨ āĻāĻŦāĻ āĻĒāĻžāĻ¨ receive āĻŦāĻ¨ā§āĻ§ā§āĻĻā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻāĻŦāĻ āĻ¤āĻžāĻ° āĻ¸āĻŽā§āĻĒāĻ°ā§āĻā§ āĻāĻ¸āĻŋāĻĒ āĻāĻ°āĻ¤ā§ āĻ āĻ¸ā§āĻŦā§āĻāĻžāĻ° āĻāĻ°ā§āĻ¨āĨ¤ āĻāĻĒāĻ¨āĻžāĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻ˛ā§āĻāĻĻā§āĻ° āĻĒā§āĻ°āĻŦā§āĻļā§āĻ° āĻāĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻĻāĻ°āĻāĻž āĻ°āĻžāĻā§āĻ¨āĨ¤
Professional Etiquette:
Dress properly.
Shake hands when appropriate.
Never take credit for other peopleâs work.
Use indoor voice while talking to people.
āĻĒā§āĻļāĻžāĻĻāĻžāĻ° āĻļāĻŋāĻˇā§āĻāĻžāĻāĻžāĻ°: āĻ¸āĻ āĻŋāĻāĻāĻžāĻŦā§ āĻĒā§āĻļāĻžāĻ āĻĒāĻ°āĻŋāĻ§āĻžāĻ¨ āĻāĻ°ā§
āĻāĻĒāĻ¯ā§āĻā§āĻ¤ āĻšāĻ˛ā§ āĻāĻ°āĻŽāĻ°ā§āĻĻāĻ¨ āĻāĻ°ā§āĨ¤ āĻ āĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻ˛ā§āĻā§āĻ° āĻāĻžāĻā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĢāĻ˛ā§āĻ¯ā§āĻ°Â¨ āĻāĻ¨ā§āĻ¯ āĻāĻāĻ¨āĻ āĻ¨āĻŋāĻā§ āĻ¨āĻŋāĻŦā§ āĻ¨āĻžāĨ¤
āĻŽāĻžāĻ¨ā§āĻˇā§āĻ° āĻ¸āĻžāĻĨā§ āĻāĻĨāĻž āĻŦāĻ˛āĻžāĻ° āĻ¸āĻŽāĻ¯āĻŧ āĻāĻ¨ā§āĻ¤āĻ°āĻŋāĻ āĻāĻ¯āĻŧā§āĻ¸ āĻŦā§āĻ¯āĻŦāĻšāĻžāĻ° āĻāĻ°ā§āĻ¨āĨ¤
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New Words
1.Grudge 2.Etiquette 3.Manners 4.Interrupt 5.Courtesy 6.Handsome 7.Subservience 8.Notorious |
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